Tips for the Shy

Most people will admit that they are shy. Up to 95% of people admit to being shy in some situations. “Shyness is people walking around as if they are in front of a mirror all of the time,” explained Shyness Researcher Bernardo Carducci, in an article in today’s WSJ.

The story included some tips on how to ‘battle bashfulness.’  “Prepare–Hate meeting new people at business events? Practice talking to people  in line at the cafe or think of what you would say to someone you dread running into.

Force yourself to stand in the middle of the room, approach a boisterous group or introduce yourself to everyone in blue. ”

Instead of asking questions, make statements. It makes them to the work.

You might not be the only shy one in the room. So don’t beat yourself up if you’re umcomfortable.